HOOVERING Meaning and
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Hoovering, in the context of interpersonal relationships, particularly within the realm of psychology and narcissistic abuse, refers to a manipulative tactic employed by a narcissist or toxic individual to regain control, attention, or power over a previous target or victim. It derives its name from the brand Hoover, which is often associated with the act of vacuuming. Just like a vacuum cleaner sucks up dirt and debris, hoovering describes the narcissist's effort to suck their victim back into their influence.
Hoovering encompasses a range of behaviors and strategies aimed at reestablishing contact, reopening lines of communication, or rekindling a relationship that had been terminated, discarded, or left in an uncertain state. This can include frequent phone calls, text messages, emails, or even unexpected personal visits. The narcissist may use various techniques such as love-bombing (excessive flattery and affection), apologies, promises of change, or even threats and intimidation to regain the attention and control they desire.
The purpose of hoovering is primarily to keep the victim enmeshed in the toxic relationship, ensuring a constant source of validation, admiration, or emotional supply for the narcissist. It also serves to reassert their dominance and power dynamics over the victim, deeply rooted in their need for control and manipulation.
Understanding hoovering and recognizing its patterns can empower individuals to break free from the cycle of abuse. It allows victims to protect their emotional well-being, maintain healthy boundaries, and ultimately, move towards healing and recovery.
Common Misspellings for HOOVERING
Etymology of HOOVERING
The word "hoovering" originated as a verb derived from the name of the popular vacuum cleaner brand, Hoover. It is believed to have originated in the 1950s in the United Kingdom when the Hoover company released a new line of vacuum cleaners that were marketed for their powerful suction. The term "hoovering" became a colloquial expression to refer to the act of vacuuming or cleaning using a Hoover vacuum cleaner. Over time, the word "hoovering" evolved to take on a metaphorical meaning related to manipulation and control. It is commonly used in psychological contexts to describe a manipulative behavior employed by narcissists or individuals with controlling tendencies who aim to draw someone back into a relationship or exert control over them again, much like a vacuum cleaner sucking something back in.
Idioms with the word HOOVERING
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The idiom "hoovering" refers to the act of vacuuming or cleaning a space thoroughly. It can also be used figuratively to describe someone who is excessively cleaning or tidying up.
Similar spelling word for HOOVERING
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