Passive aggressive personality disorder refers to a psychological condition characterized by a pervasive pattern of passive resistance, indirect expression of hostility, and negative attitudes. Individuals with this disorder often exhibit a combination of passivity, stubbornness, and repressed anger. They may outwardly appear compliant and agreeable, but they harbor a deep-seated resentment and defiance, which they express indirectly through covert actions and behaviors. This personality disorder primarily affects interpersonal relationships, causing significant distress and dysfunction in both personal and professional settings.
People with passive aggressive personality disorder often employ various mechanisms to resist demands or expectations from others. They may engage in procrastination, intentionally forgetfulness, or consistently being late. They may also employ sarcasm, sullenness, and a ‘silent treatment’ as methods of expressing their anger towards others without openly confronting or addressing the issue. By doing so, they aim to maintain a sense of control and avoid direct conflict while subtly undermining those they perceive as opposing their wishes or desires.
Symptoms of passive aggressive personality disorder may include a constant feeling of being misunderstood, resentment towards authority figures, difficulty expressing emotions directly, fear of confrontation, and a tendency to manipulate others through guilt or emotional manipulation. This can lead to strained personal relationships and negative consequences in other areas of life, such as work or education.
Treating passive aggressive personality disorder often involves psychotherapy aimed at helping the individual develop healthier patterns of communication and expression of emotions. In some cases, medication may be used to alleviate symptoms associated with underlying issues, such as depression or anxiety.
